Friday, December 4, 2009

Happy Hollidays

I realize that I haven't posted anything worth while for a long time. It is crazy in our house this time of year. Between school, being a mom, and a maid, I feel like I am running nonstop. And with Christmas rapidly approaching, life hasn't seem to slow down one bit. I never send out Christmas cards, mostly because I don't want my fat face for all to see. So here is an update of our last year.

Cayge:
Man this kid is getting big. Each time I turn around he has grown both physically and emotionally. He is a very generous loving kid. He has already taken the big brother role to heart and protects his sisters at all times. He has a great outlook on life. He truly takes lemons and makes lemonade. He is excelling in school beyond all measure. He is in second grade and is currently reading on a 4th grade level and a 3rd grade math level. He gets upset if he ever has to miss school. He LOVES his teacher (as do I) and plays football every recess with his friends. We go through pants like crazy these days with all the holes in the knees! Cayge is still and amazing artist and LOVES to draw all the time, especially when he can do it with his dad. Cayge got a great BDay present this year from his best friend George: he (or his Grandpa who is the offensive line coach for the Detroit Lions - the boys FAVORITE team) got Cayge and Rayce tickets to the Detroit Lions @ Seattle Seahawks game. They drove there and back all in the same day. It was both of their dreams come true! We love our tender-heart Cayge. He shows us on a daily basis why he was sent to us. He keeps the spirit in our home happy and light!

Icelynn:
I have one word for my little Icee: GENIUS! This girl constantly amazes me. She is in Kindergarten this year, and by summers end, she was reading on a 1st grade level. She begs every night to do homework (which she never gets from school so I have to buy her supplementary books at the store). She is constantly reading or drawing or just being creative. We have discovered that Icelynn is very musical. She is in perfect tune and can sing like an adult. Her favorite way to sing is to put a little growl in her voice when her dad plays rock n roll on the guitar for her. (she's the good version of Janise Joplin!) She also can play the piano by ear. She hears a song on the radio that she likes, and will just sit down and find the right key and play it! She amazes me, I have wanted to be able to do that all my life, and now my 6 year old can do it. She is super social, and is constantly talking. More like bossing, she is definitely holding that middle child persona to a "T". She bosses Cayge and Shylee every chance she gets. Icelynn really wanted to do Wrestling this year, but we found out that we felt better letting her flip around on gym mats rather than being fliped onto a wrestling mat by other boys. So we signed the girls up for Gymnastics, and Icee is a natural. On the first day, she was asked to do a cartwheel, and instead landed a front flip. I love my Icee-Fart (as her dad calls her)! She keeps us in line and we like it that way. She loves to be the center of attention, and we like to give it to her!

Shylee:
This kid has such spunk! She never lies... EVER! She lets us know what we have done wrong, or what she thinks we need to improve on, such as my weight. She always says to me that my tummy looks like there is a baby in it, so I need to get skinny cause my tummy is empty. We are always laughing when she is in the room. Whether it is something funny she has just said, or the facial expression she just pulled, or just because she is a klutz and tumbled to the floor for no apparent reason. I love spending my afternoons with ShyShy before the two other kids get home. I think she gets out her mean words on me, and is super nice to her sister when she gets home and is ready to play. Shylee also LOVES school, but not for the academic reasons. She just loves her teacher Miss. Debbie. She tells me all the time that she wants to live with her because she is much funner than me, but Shy insists. Shy also has gymnastics, but is kind of a turd when she's there. She thinks she can just do her own thing, but they keep her in line. She still loves to go though. I am so glad that I have this fire cracker in my life. She defiantly keeps me on my toes.

Rayce:
This guy truly amazes me. He is constantly busy! Between being a full time student and a dad, he is working on an Internet graphic design online store called iStock, but he also tattoos. He started his apprenticeship in April, and was tattooing on his on by May (which normally takes 2 years! Not two months!) He is a Jr. in his degree here at the U of Idaho. This man is constantly moving, or working on something. From 5 in the morning till usually after midnight. I am so grateful to have such a wonderful, dedicated, and loving man in my life. His kids are his world, and he constantly says that he would probably still be living in his parents basement if it wasn't for their beautiful spirits to be with every day.

As for me, I am doing the same old. Going to school, being a mom, and being a maid. It is a never ending battle, but one I wouldn't trade the world for. I love being a mom. It is truly the greatest gift that anyone could ever be blessed with. I try to take in something from my kids every day. I love to look at their smiling faces, or to hear them giggle while playing with each other. I even like finding the little piles of doll hair that randomly show up in my bathroom when the girls decide that the poor dolls hair is too long. At least it is not their own! We haven't had that problem for a year now! I am so greatful for all of my blessings.
In this beautiful season, I hope that you and your loved ones read this message in good spirits. I hope that the Lord has blessed your lives in some way. I am greatful for all of my family, and hope that this season is a wonderful Holiday Season for all.
Merry Christmas!

Friday, November 6, 2009

Poor me Moment

Okay, I realize I have better things to do than to have this little sob fest. I haven't posted something for a while, but I just wanted to vent a little. Having said that, here it goes...
1.) In August, the girls in the Bird family decided that it was time for a "Girly Trip". The boys go and do fun stuff all the time, and the gals get to stay home. Which isn't as bad as it sounds, but not as fun as it sounds at the same time. In all our planning, it came to my attention, (by a very rude gesture from he-who-must-not-be-named) that I was not going to be able to go. That I had spent all summer at home, and that it just wasn't a good idea to drive BACK to Idaho Falls, for a weekend trip to Vegas. So I graciously bowed out, and the other girls went minus myself.
2.) Rayce is a HUGE Detroit Lions Fan. I was looking at their schedule and saw that they played the Seahawks in Seattle. Knowing that we probably wouldn't be able to go again (because it has been 4 years since these two had met up) that we should go to the game. Priced tickets, hotels, gas costs, food, the whole works. Put some Lions memorabilia into the budget to bring back to Cayge (following in his Paws footsteps as a Lions fan) , and had everything all planned out, just needed to make sure Rayce was on the same page. We decided that if we went, we would not go home for Thanksgiving break so that we could afford to go home for Christmas break.
Now, this is where it all went wrong (for me at least)
Rayce's brother called saying that the weekend before Thanksgiving, the Bird boys all wanted to go to Vegas and watch a UFC fight. Without any hesitation AT ALL, Rayce said yes. He tells me that we will not be going to the Lions game, and that he was going to Vegas with the boys. Which isn't to bad, because I am in desperate need of being away from my house, and it will be fun to go home. But the more I think about it, the more jealous I get, because it was ME that wanted to go to Vegas all along, not Rayce. But I remind my self to not be a selfish brat, and not say anything to him and let him go have a guilt free trip.
Then today, a friend of mine calls Rayce (this gal happens to be the daughter of the Detroit Lions Offensive Line) and says that she has one extra adult and one extra child ticket if Rayce and Cayge were interested in going to the game. It is an all expense paid trip. They don't have to pay for gas, tickets, natta. Once again, he doesn't hesitate to say yes. Which in so many ways, I don't blame him.
But here I am, not getting to go to Vegas or to the Lions game. And here is Rayce, getting to go to Vegas and to the Lions game.
You all probably think I am being a brat, and have it out for my hubby. But just remember that he said no to these two trips when it was me going, and my idea!

Sunday, October 18, 2009

IN NEED OF IDEAS!!

To all you creative people out there, Icelynn & Cayge are having a Birthday/Halloween party on the 31st. I need some ideas on what do do with a bunch of 8 year olds and 6 year olds. PLEASE! I am dying here (he he, halloween joke!)